Suy tư: MAKE ME A CHANNEL OF YOUR PEACE

(On memorial day of Grandmom's death) 

On the feast day of Saint Francis of Assisi, the memorable motto "Make me a channel of your peace" echoes in my mind. How do I understand this motto? I want to answer this question with my own experience, through my grandmother's death.

Nearly one month ago, my grandmom passed away, and I learned many lessons through her death. She was more than 90 years old and died without sickness. I often talk to my aunts and uncles, "she is similar to the lamp that is out of oil, so we prepare all things for her death and funeral in peace." Surprisingly, recognizing the strange signs - peace signs through her death, this was the first time I had had direct experience in serving a dying person. 

First, my grandmother met all her sons and daughters before her death. It is rare for all members of my grandmother's family to gather together, as they are scattered across different parts of the world. However, they listen to their mother's wishes, arranging work and family to visit and stay with her at the end of her life. All brothers and sisters were happy to meet and share their lives, as they did when they were children at home. 

Second, my grandmother, a former Catholic nun, was a gentle and kind woman. When she was old, she forgot all things in her memory, but she only remembered prayers (traditional/ ancient prayers) in Latin and Vietnamese. It is a beautiful and significant example for all descendants. I think that my grandmom reminded all members of the family that "the ideas which you nourish in your heart during your life will be displayed clearly when you are old and mixed." 

Third, all members of my family realize the happiness in the death of my grandmom because of her blessed death. She lived a long life with a devoted heart for God, the Church, Family, and, in particular, for all her descendants. Therefore, her life is a peaceful channel of God, which is sent to each member of the family. Hence, living a happy Christian life is necessary than a sorrowful attitude. Furthermore, it is not a regret for a death person, but seeing the opportunities to be better for living persons.

Thank you, my grandmother! May the light of God lighten on your soul, and lead you to everlasting life. 

 

Author and Photo: Little Stream